I hope everyone’s Holiday weekend was grand. Mine was full of wonderful memories, highly excited children, and some laryngitis. I still sound like a dying squawking bird but luckily I can still write!
I recently read a doctor’s article on how health coaches are becoming more accepted and recognized for the service they provide. His case was that doctors endure many years of medical school and get no training on human behavior and how to motivate others. He says that really isn’t a doctor’s job. He says that is why he “prescribes” patients a health coach, someone with the time and training to help get a person’s motives down to a nitty gritty and support them to follow through with lifestyle changes they want to make.
You know, I have always assumed it was a doctor’s job to motivate patients but now that I think about it, doctors really are trained in medicine and I doubt they get classes on perfecting their bedside manor and figuring out how to engage people. I don’t think they’re trained in counseling. Not to mention, most doctors have a very limited amount of time with each patient. A former doctor of mine said he had about 7 to 15 minutes with each patient. That’s barely enough time to figure out what’s wrong with a person let alone talk to them about how life is going and how they are feeling about their diet and exercise and the stress in their lives.
Ideally, health counselors or life coaches are built into the system and covered by insurance companies for widespread accessibility. That is not the current state of our health system however and that means that so many people are left to their own devices.
I think that’s why I focus SO many of my posts somewhere inside the realm of motivation. Every totally impressive person I know has locked into what personally motivates them. They latch on to this and keep it in the forefront of their mind. They eat, breathe, and sleep it. There is no other way to be very successful at something than to know exactly why you want to do it. Losing sight of this equals failure. The what, when, how, and where all sorts itself out as long as you know why you want to do something.
I’ll be taking on clients soon as a holistic health counselor and I am making plans right now to remember all those who can’t afford this service. I’m thinking about giving local group sessions and seminars for free or at highly discounted rates. Those with less money are probably those who don’t even make it to the doctor often enough and could use more support with their lifestyle habits.
Sometimes all some of us need is a little encouragement and attention to what motivates us and perhaps, in the current paradigm, it isn’t our doctor’s job to do all those things.
What do you think?